Twilight Zone
My recent posts...Twilight Zone בֵּין הַשְׁמָשׁוֹת Bein hashemashot, literally, between the suns. בֵּין הַשְׁמָשׁוֹת A twilight zone of time, or rather, out of time, between one day and the next. Our sages of old used this concept to explain certain miraculous...
When to Pray Yizkor
My recent posts...My edited comments from this past final day of Pesach. Ellie’s mom, Julia Helfman, died on her 95th birthday, December 24, 2025. This was the first Yizkor service Ellie feels obligated to attend. She said, “I’m now a member of a club I was not eager...
Timing
It had become a Kremer household Pesach tradition, or rather, a pre-Pesach tradition. Somewhere within a couple of days prior the first seder and noon on erev Pesach, something would go awry in the kitchen.
A Moment of Hebrew
My recent posts...רֶגַע שֶׁל עִבְרִית regga shel ivrit: A moment of Hebrew The summer of 1970, I was one of 250 teens in Israel with Camp Ramah. (Ellie was on the same program, but we didn’t meet then.) I got an outsized pleasure of riding an Egged public bus in...
Small Congregations
Recently, Joe Rodgers and I participated in a modest Conference for Small Congregations organized by United Synagogue for Conservative Judaism. Some thirty rabbis and lay leaders — presidents, board members, an executive director — gathered to share with and learn from one another.
Small congregations? Attending congregations ranged from 40 to 260 member “units.” (The majority of Conservative Jews in the United Sates belong to small congregations.)
For the most part, the attendees shared the same concerns: increasing synagogue participation at all levels and improving our planning, programming, and recruiting and retaining members.
We practiced a technique to process a new venture, whether a class, a social event or a religious service. Responsibilities and roles were discussed in the context of tasks such as establishing policy, crafting a vision statement, education decisions, and programs.
We shared challenges large and small, opportunities found and lost, professional highs and lows. Suggestions came from a deep well of experience; one-on-one conversations led to insights and encouragement to try new things.
Among my take-aways: Options for occasionally shaking up the Shabbat morning service; alternatives to “we always…;” there are other words than “committee” for committees; how to begin tackling a large project; many personal stories are even more compelling than your own.
I got to share with the group a song I wrote about my seminary experience. The line that resonated most with all was this aspiration: “I’ll inspire ev’ry Jew to find something new / in traditions passed down through the ages.” All who came to the conference aspire to inspire; I will use everything I gained from those two days to enrich, to uplift, your Jewish life at Shirat Hayam.
shabbat shalom!שבת שלום

